Episode 15

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17th Aug 2020

Saying No to An Invite, Apologizing the Right Way, and Communication that Works l E15 Jonathan Miller

Today’s guest is Jonathan Miller, a speaker, facilitator, and communication coach. He is also the host of the incredible podcast, Mindful Communication, where he has conversations with thinkers and influencers about the art and science of connection.

In this episode, Jonathan and I discuss why there is not a right or wrong whenever it comes to communication.

He also gives advice on how to say no to an invite, how to give a powerful apology, and how to take on someone else’s perspective.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to have more clarity with their words.

 

Key Takeaways:

[10:30] There is no right or wrong with communication rather what works or doesn’t work

[20:01] How to say no to an invite without offending the host

[23:17] Conflict can lead to two outcomes: drama or creativity

[35:29] The difference between a regular apology vs a powerful apology

[44:45] How to take on someone else’s perspective

 

Favorite Quotes:

[18:04] “We are denying the fact that we indeed have a choice and when we don’t have choice, it means we are a victim of circumstances.”

[30:45] “How is this person actually looking to work with me and I am getting in the way of working with them.”

[45:00] “There are as many perspectives on this planet as there are people.”

 

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