Episode 85

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13th Feb 2023

Spice Up Your Sex Life with a Sex Life Bucket List | E85 Susan Bratton

Has the sexual chemistry in your relationship turned dull?

 

Bedroom boredom is a really common issue in relationships so it is nothing to beat yourself up about. We get comfortable in our patterns. The same positions, techniques, and places although great at first, become predictable and eventually boring.

 

I don’t need to ask a stupid rhetorical question here. I know you don’t want to have a boring sex life. Nobody wants that. So let’s reignite some excitement in the bedroom.

 

But we know it’s not that simple or we’d be doing it already. How do I talk to my partner about this and once they’re on board, what do we do to “spice things up?”

 

What if you had a list of ideas and someone to help bridge that conversation with you and your partner? Insert fan favorite guest, Susan Bratton, who first appeared on episode 63.

 

Susan is back on to share something she created to help us with this exact problem: a sex life bucket list. In this conversation, Susan will walk you through how to create and use your sex life bucket list.

 

Of course, if I have an hour with Susan, I’m not going to miss the opportunity to ask for some tips and techniques as well. We get into some hot and heavy conversations about ejaculatory choice, how to be louder in the bedroom, and how to share feedback to your partner that leaves them feeling encouraged.

 

Finally, if you’re lacking confidence in your body, you’ll want to stay tuned in until the end because Susan brings it home with a reassuring monologue.

 

Key Takeaways:

  • Why you should care about your sex if you want to live a healthy life
  • How to make a sexual offer that she says yes to
  • Ideas for erotic play dates
  • Using the Me Breathe to get ejaculatory choice
  • How to be louder in the bedroom
  • How to have better penis technique
  • How to share feedback to your partner that leaves them feeling encouraged
  • Building confidence in your body

 

Mentions:

Susan Bratton on TSIR Part 1: www.tsirpodcast.com/63

 

More of Susan:

www.sexlifebucketlist.com

www.FemaleLiquidOrgasm.com

www.gspotjoy.com

www.BetterLover.com

www.PumpingGuide.com

www.PersonalLifeMedia.com

www.SexualSoulmatePact.com

www.ExpandHerOrgasm.com

 

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